Relationships should be built on balance — a mix of personal independence and healthy connection with others. But some people lean heavily toward independence, preferring to handle everything on their own, while others struggle to function without constant validation or support. Where do you stand? Are you fiercely self-sufficient, deeply intertwined with your loved ones, or somewhere in between? This test will help you understand your relationship style, identify patterns, and offer insights on how to cultivate healthier connections.
How to Take Test
Here are some simple rules to get the most out of this test:
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Each question is a statement. Сhoose the answer that suits you. The answer buttons are emojis, where 
is strongly disagree, 
is strongly agree. 
allows you to return to the previous question.
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Take your time, remember, you want to understand your personality better, not just click through as quickly as possible.
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Think about the answers, but try not to “overthink” them. It often happens that the first answer that comes to mind is the correct one.
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If you can’t answer, it’s okay to ask your circle. Or just choose a 
option.
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The most important rule: have fun!
I often let others take the lead in making plans or decisions.
I enjoy collaborating and sharing responsibilities in a relationship.
I worry that people won’t like me if I assert my own opinions too strongly.
If I don’t hear from my partner or a close friend for a while, I start to worry.
I feel most secure when I know that the people I love depend on me.
I find it difficult to express my own needs in relationships.
I sometimes ignore my own interests to keep the peace in a relationship.
I tend to prioritize my relationships over my personal goals or ambitions.
I believe that depending on others too much is a sign of weakness.
My mood is heavily influenced by the emotions of those around me.
I feel uncomfortable if a loved one doesn’t need me as much as I need them.
I prefer friendships and relationships where both people have their own space and independence.
I often put my own needs aside to accommodate the people I care about.
I feel uncomfortable making big decisions without seeking approval or reassurance from others.
I feel guilty if I take time for myself instead of focusing on others.
When facing a problem, I usually turn to someone else for advice before making a decision.
I have trouble saying no, even when I don’t want to do something.
I feel uneasy when I’m not needed by those I care about.
I would rather struggle on my own than accept help from someone.
I enjoy spending time alone and rarely feel the need for constant companionship.
I prefer to handle challenges on my own rather than ask for help.
I get frustrated when others try to help me with something I believe I can do myself.
If someone close to me is upset, I feel responsible for making them feel better.
I am comfortable with the idea of being alone and don’t feel the need to constantly be in a relationship.
I feel anxious when I have to be alone for extended periods.
